Job Overview:

We are seeking a kind, patient, and reliable au pair to join a warm family with two siblings. The primary focus will be supporting an easy-going, curious 6‑year‑old autistic boy, with occasional care for his 1‑year‑old sibling.

The child is friendly and content, with a love for sensory experiences such as swimming, trampoline play, exploring nature, and a special fascination with washing machines and spinning objects. He thrives when included in social settings and benefits from encouragement, acceptance, and playful engagement.

The ideal candidate will be trustworthy, easy‑going, and flexible in approach, with a genuine interest in understanding and celebrating neurodivergent ways of experiencing the world. This role is about building connection, offering companionship, and creating a safe, supportive environment where the child can flourish.

Purpose of the Role:

To provide steady, compassionate support at home, focusing on daily routines such as meals, potty training, and relaxed developmental activities. The au pair will help create a calm, predictable rhythm to the day while encouraging playful engagement that supports growth. Practical support such as school pick‑ups and transport to appointments is also part of the role, ensuring transitions are handled with patience and consistency.

Job Objectives:

·         Provide attentive care for a 6‑year‑old autistic boy, and occasionally his 1‑year‑old sibling.

·         Foster emotional safety through predictable routines and creative, active engagement.

·         Support daily transitions calmly and consistently.

·         Prepare light, nutritious meals and assist during mealtimes to encourage healthy eating habits and independence.

·         Guide and reinforce consistent potty‑training routines with patience and positivity, supporting confidence and self‑care skills.

·         Design and implement developmental activities—including communication exercises, sensory play, and fine/gross motor skill practice—in a nurturing environment.

·         Manage school pick‑ups and transport to extra‑murals and appointments.

Requirements

Personal Qualities

·         Patient, grounded, and emotionally intuitive.

·         Curious and respectful of neurodivergent experiences.

·         Open to learning low‑demand, neuro‑affirming approaches.

·         Creative and imaginative in engaging the child.

·         Able to commit as a long‑term source of support.

Experience

·         Previous au pair or childcare experience – Essential

·         Experience supporting neurodivergent children (ASD, ADHD, PDA) – Desirable

Knowledge

·         Familiarity with Autism Spectrum Disorder – Essential

·         Understanding of low‑arousal, neuro‑affirming approaches – Desirable

·         Awareness of developmental activities that nurture growth - Desirable

Skills

·         Ability to plan and implement engaging, child‑centred activities - Essential

·         Skills to reduce stress and anxiety through a low‑arousal approach – Essential

·         Strong verbal communication with both child and parents – Essential

·         Excellent organisational and time‑management skills – Essential

·         Strong relationship‑building abilities – Essential

·         Holds a valid driver’s licence and has a reliable car - Essential

Benefits

·         Support and training from the Facilitation Academy over 4–6 weeks, including online modules, individual sessions, and access to resources.

Working Hours & Compensation

·         Weekday afternoons: 12:00 – 15:00/16:00

·         Opportunity to work during school holidays

·         Salary: R150/hour (approx. R9,900/month for 3 hours/day) or R120/hour (approx. R10,560/month for 4 hours/day)

·         Petrol for transporting the child reimbursed at AA rates per kilometre (excluding travel from au pair’s home to place of work)